PlanNine ( member #46311) posted at 9:01 PM on Thursday, September 4th, 2025
Ill also say that, if Im 100% honest, Ive never made myself that vulnerable again. Even now that Im in a wonderful marriage, a sliver of my secret self is held back. Kinda my hole card if you will.
Same here. ExWW used her knowledge of my inner thoughts, fears and insecurities to carry out her affairs, gaslight me endlessly, and blame my shortcomings for the end of our marriage while secretly plotting her new life with AP.
I'm happily remarried for over a decade now. And while I'm 99.999% certain my wife would never stab me in the back like that, I'm 110% certain that if she does, it won't be with a knife I handed her.
"I was also thinking, 'Maybe I'm not a bike racer.' I doubted myself for a while, but now I'm back on track. I may not be a bike racer, but I can beat plenty of them that reckon they are." - Guy Martin
